Natural Power of Seduction

Women have been so busy lately trying to make it happen, that they've forgotten who they are. Their true feminity has been pushed to the wayside and their behavior is more male than female.

What has happened is that when we believe we need to make something happen we get the old adrenaline going, puff ourselves up, psych ourselves out and then we do it, whatever it is!

This has got to stop. Women aren't men and what we should be doing is asserting our feminity, not our animus which is the male aspect of ourselves, or our Yang which is and expression of the male energy.

Don't misunderstand, we need both to be balanced, but we've gone way beyond balance anymore and have lost or forgotten to be women.

Our power and our energy is from the waist down, in the sacral and root chakras, where the womb is, where our legs our and yes where our sex is. I don't say this to create a big stir but to share a truth that has been forgotten.

Often I hear women saying they desire a relationship, they would like their men to be more loving, they would give anything to have a relationship that works. I say in order to have this desire fulfilled, you must remember what your role is as woman.

When a woman understands her energetic self, when a woman knows where her power comes from, and knows when and how to assert it then the relationship she desires most will come.

If you have two individuals all revved up on adrenaline, how can that work. It's like having two men butting heads at a football game.

Realize that something has to give, and women's roles is to be giving, nurturing, open and receptive. I don't mean being a pushover, I mean being a woman.

Relishing your womanly self, and sharing that, not only using your aggression, but being assertive in a very feminie way. Seduction is powerful when used correctly, not glamour, anyone can be glamorous (amorous), but seduction is natural it comes from an innate, inherent instinct within and when a woman knows this and uses it correctly she can have any relationship she desires.

Women were created to be seductive, not in a silly, stupid way, but in a wise, womanly way. If you ever seen a woman who can get whatever she desires, I can assure you it isn't because she is glamorous!

We are often led to believe this is so, but if you look at the divorce rate of women who are some of the most glamorous women, how does one explain this?

Seduction is from the soul, from the heart, don't overthink love, and do know that seduction is a huge part of it.

Women must come to know themselves in a deep place and realize that to have the relationship they desire they must learn what it means to be a woman.

Pay attention to those women who have beautiful lasting relationships make one of them your "sensual mentor", study love if you must, but remember that their are specific components to having the realationship you so ardently desire. It isn't lashes and lipstick and Victoria Secret
I assure you, it's what's in your heart and how much you know about the soul of the feminine woman.

Pink Panties

Women work as hard or harder than men do and it has always been this way. As women we have numerous other responsibilites that we must fulfill along with our work. If we are married, we have a husband whom we must make time for, and depending on the agreement we made early on in our relationship that could be a lot of additional work. If there are children, we also have a responsibility to them.

Now, nothing that I've said is new information, women have been doublebooked all of their lives. Women have been reared as nurturers and that has been their primary role, and it is a lovely role, however; thinking of oneself is equally as important. One cannot nurture, if they aren't nurtured as well. "At times that will require self nurturing."

Being fully feminine has never been more important than it is now, particularly if you have others that you must care for and share your soul with. As a woman we desire to still fill our womanliness, or softness, our beauty; and with so much to do we often forget about ourselves. Our femininty gets lost in roles and work, we do.

Women fill very significant positions and roles, princesses, queens, tv anchor, attorneys,entreprenuer, supreme court justices, first ladies, corporate presidents, many of which have a masculine tone, wouldn't you agree. Now I know I began this discourse with the role of wife & mother, however I do believe that any woman for the most part enjoys being one, and we must always consider ourselves and do something to engage our feminine self.

Now, most of you wear underwear, am I right? Well, for those of you who don't I guess you've already figured it out, but what I am proposing ladies is that you purchase yourselves lots of pink panties, with tons of lace and all kinds of frilly gizmo's on them and wear them daily under whatever it is you've got on. Pink because, it's a feminine color and what could be more fun than to have a drawer full of sexy, frilly, lacy, sexy, sensual, cool pink panties.

I'm serious, we've got to remember who we are, and everytime you get stressed, or you have to pull rank on some silly guy at work and he goes left on you and calls you some random name, you can just smile and remember what you've got on underneath your suit, or your slacks, or that lovely dress and put a wonderful smile on your face because you know what a sexy random name you are!

I am a woman, and I love being one, I love wearing beautiful underwear, and sometimes I think about what I've got on underneath my dress, or my jeans and I feel really sexy and it opens up a part of me that I don't often think about because I've so concerned about my business, how many clients I don't have today, and how high the prices of gas are, or what I'm going to do if people don't start showing up, you know what I mean.

So, I'm saying this to say that when we disconnect from all the craziness out there and we put something else on our minds, something as frivilous as our pink panties we feel better. Well some would say meditate, pray, say an affirmation, and I'm in total agreement with that. Got one for you. "I look hot in my Pink Panties." It's only an affirmation, and usually we say them to ourselves so whose going to know.

I am by no means rambling here, I'm working on a concept that says women can reclaim their feminity. It begins from within, and Pink Panties is a start. Relax, breathe, and open up, open your legs, relax in your feminine power. Now, I'm not saying wide open, but to open that part of yourself, and be relaxed, for that is where you power lies. My censor told me I was going to far.

And if you've forgotten altogether how to be sensual, sexy, hot, engaging, warm, ask a woman who does, watch her, make her your "sensual mentor", follow her lead and learn the ways of "The New Feminity".

Be bodly feminine, don't apologize for it. BE just as hot as you want to be, and savor yourself, and when you forget what a wonderful feminine speciman you are, go to the bathroom and look at your pink panties. I'm serious! LOL